The Calm Dog and Learned Behavior

Several years ago I watched a 40 hr. presentation by a popular UK trainer. At one point in the presentation he discussed dog parks, and the many behavior problems they create. He said in this presentation that one area positive training advocates "got wrong" was being advocates of dog parks. He called it an absolute mistake. I've always believed this, and do not find they benefit our canine companions.

While I've written past posts regarding the many problems with dog parks, I think the bigger issue is how society generally sees excitable behaviors in dogs as natural, entertaining, and a normal part of life. I disagree. I see many owners that spend considerable money and time seeing their dogs are chauffeured to dog parks, play dates, and day care. I understand they are doing what they have been told benefits their dog, and they generally find their dog becomes physically tired after these outings. Unfortunately, the uncontrolled and excitable interactions common in these settings are creating more excitable dogs.

While I have no issue with play and fun as part of a balanced day, the important word is "balance". A dog being temporarily excited around another dog is not unusual, but a dog that never calms around other dogs is a real problem. And this "problem" is becoming endemic because many owners see it as normal. Some owners even encourage excitable behaviors. How much better would our dogs be if we were "teaching calm" behaviors? What are you teaching your dog as acceptable behavior in and out of the home, around people, or around other pets?

If we care about our dogs (collectively as a society), perhaps it's time to shift our image of a dog's life as one of endless play to one also balanced with thought and work. If you're allowing excitable behaviors, they will definitely build with time, If you are teaching your dog to be calm in varied settings, then you will have a much more enjoyable pet. Calm pets enjoy a richer life because they are welcome in more places, and can participate in more activities with owners. If you need help, good trainers have many options for helping owners teach their dogs how to focus, think, and behave - even in challenging situations.