Real Life with Dogs

I have come to appreciate that no 2 dogs are the same. Every one is an individual, with a unique personality, aptitudes, responses, etc. My appreciation is profound, and one forged working with thousands of dogs over the years. As a trainer, I take time and consider any dog's unique attributes. Doing so can be very helpful, and humbling.

Some owners may have specific expectations for their dog(s). While that's great, real-life finds not every dog is capable of doing everything an owner may wish. Timid dogs won't enjoy a lot of social interaction, can't do therapy or service work, and may simply wish to relax in a comfort zone (home). Hyper dogs can be great work and play dogs, but need owners to guide them using "brakes and steering" (training) - they won't generally do well left to their own choices.

With a little work, most dogs can become well mannered pets that earn privileges. Owners need to help their dogs learn, and challenge them to grow in fair and meaningful ways. Being "fair" means owners must be thoughtful about their specific dog's unique gifts, abilities, and shortcomings. You can't make an apple tree grow carrots, but good care and feeding can give you a lot of tasty apples!

3 dogs share our home currently, and they're all quite different. Personalties range from bold to skittish, learning abilities from gifted to stubborn, and focal abilities from strong to non-existent. Even though each dog turned out differently than I would have guessed at acquisition, somehow they all learned to live nicely in a home, listen, and obey commands. This learning has allowed them to visit many places, enjoy walks and runs without leashes, and travel with me routinely.

Trainers sometimes say 'you don't always get the dog you want, but you'll get the dog you need'. In my life that's been very true. I've had dogs that have been easy to live with, and others that have been challenging. In the end, it's been a wonderful journey of growth for all. Training has always been a part of our path together, and something that has forged deeper bonds with every dog. But training paths have varied with each dog, and were mapped with awareness and respect of each one's unique needs and abilities.

So today I will leave you with this thought - "It's not what your dog can do, it's what you do with the dog you have."